Trying To Find Love

Also read the article Where Can I Find Love
Finding love nowadays appears to be easy. You look the part, you play the part and bang - there it is! But can you keep it?

Steps

1. Don't expect them to fit all the qualities you have on your list and make sure you are yourself all those things you want your partner to be.
   
2. Don't waste your efforts trying to change your partner. If you can't cope with his/her imperfections move on - don't stick around bullying him/her into changing into something he's/she's not. If you are unable to allow your partner to be as imperfect as you are, just move on.
   
3. No relationship is perfect but it shouldn't be hard work either. Compromise, communication, respect for each other, and fun, fun, fun, are the essential ingredients of a healthy relationship.
   
4. Allow them to be who they truly are - to express themselves freely. Express their passions, their dreams, their feelings, their needs, their insecurities, their emotions without having the fear of being judged or ridiculed by you.
   
5. Only by allowing them to be who they really are you will know you are in love with the right person.
   

Tips

• Keep in mind these simple rules:
  
• Don't do to your partner what you wouldn't like him/her to do to you.
  
• Don't say to your partner things you wouldn't like him/her to say to you.
  

Warnings

• In the first three months of a relationship you should have an idea whether it will be a harmonious one and within five months you should know whether you would like to make further commitments.
  
• If during this time you get obvious warning signs of serious mismatching characters - don't waste your or your partner's time - be true to yourself and to your partner and walk away.